Andy and I have discovered that strengthening our relationship, and our relationships with family and friends, is our number one way for both of us- patient and caregiver- to live the good life. Having a good life has almost become a cliché. “Whoever ends up […]
Andy’s hands, that shook uncontrollably for seven years, are now still. When he holds my hand in his, I feel treasured. It makes me smile when I hear about any sort of treasure hunting. As a small child I was enchanted with the idea of […]
If you are stuck or confused or overwhelmed because of living with a disease, one way towards wellness is to take one step and do one practical thing. When a loved one gets sick everything changes. For me, when Andy was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, the […]
Rushing is a sign of imbalance. I am in my 5th week of recovery after breaking my femur and hand in a weird fall over a curb, at midnight, in Spain, pulling a suitcase out of a bus. I was completely sidelined in that moment […]
On the first day of walking the Camino De Santiago in Spain, I fell and switched roles from caregiver to patient. I lay in the dark hospital room listening to the moans and breathing of the other people in in the ward. It was 3 […]
