My life, before Andy began living with Parkinson’s, was therapy and counseling free. I had never felt a need to work out difficult aspects of life and my feelings around them with a professional. I had witnessed various forms of counseling and therapy having positive […]
When I let Andy know all the hoops Brendan had jumped through in order to make the betting game work for him, I said, “Brendan loves you but you make it harder for anyone to want to go out of their way for you because […]
In this next series of blogs, I will be addressing some of the aspects that I experience as a caregiver for my husband, who lives with Parkinson’s. I am a “family” caregiver which means I was never intending to be a caregiver at all, and […]
We walked in our finery up a dusty gravel road until a sharp left turn and a few supersized wooden steps landed us in the cathedral of the deep forest. We walked together to the grassy spot that the river had left dry as she […]
The change I’m addressing today is the need a Parkinson’s traveler has for more rest than the average person requires. In my life with Andy, I’ve seen that he is able to experience the fun of travel when he has enough opportunities to rest. The […]
Our dog Shine knows a thing or two about reading energy. I think it’s easier because I never expected Shine to talk or wink at me or to help with the dishes. I’ve learned to have a relationship of give and take based on reading […]
“Remember the ocean will support you.” I reminded and let go of Andy’s hand. “I’m ready anytime you are.” The first day was magical. We walked into the sea holding hands. Andy wore his life vest and snorkel and I work my bikini and swim […]
That first day was a little scary and also exciting as we got into the pool together. Andy pushed off into a beautiful breast stroke and I walked beside him as he swam (HE SWAM!!!) one length. Then he swam back to make it a […]
Parkinson’s is sort of like its own culture. It’s a country no one wants to claim as their own but living there is made more tolerable when one has the experience of being fully at home in similar but different realities. England is where Andy […]
Hawaii has a lot of meaning for many people. For Andy and me, it was a place we called home off and on over many years and where we found out of the ordinary happiness. We trained for the Ironman Triathlon- Andy succeeded and I […]
